Clearwater, Florida
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Approaching 26
Ah, April. Such a great month. I particularly enjoy April for the great weather, the beginning tastes of summer energy, and many birthdays in my family. Birthdays I guess are a good time for introspection. Another year of life can be viewed as an accomplishment, or just an arbitrary marker in the infinite sand. Anyway I will be turning 26 in two days! From 25 to 26 has been full of learnings, growth, commitment, and focus. Last birthday I was alone in rural Vietnam, biking through the country, alone. I had been on the road for 7 months, quit my job, fully free and in the moment. In the year since then I have come home, defined and shaped my life goals and boundaries more, shed off dead skin which was not serving me, and committed fully to work and business. I am so grateful for all the learnings I have had this year.
The theme that comes to mind right now is my concretization of values. I travelled the world and quietly sought to learn and discover how I want life to be on my terms. As I travelled home I was scared with all the external forces it would be hard to keep those. At first it was but at the end of the day we aren't meant to be static beings. We are put in a variety of scenarios, people, emotions, and you need a solid confident core to hold you together. I always had that solid core but I was not sure what I stood for. Now I have a clear vision of how I want to live life on my terms.
The big thing is being able to work for yourself, from your laptop, anywhere in the world. I would not trade that for the world. This is pure freedom and masculine. You do not have to answer to a boss or a clock. You live life on your terms. And the crazy part is a year ago I did not know if this was even possible. Two guys in their parents' houses with zero revenue trying to will a business into existence. But we did it. The bet paid off. Not because traveling the world was the answer but because it gave me the data to know what I was actually building toward.
I think the shift I feel most right now is that at 25 I needed to prove I could break free. At 26 it is not about escaping anymore. It is about what I am building with this freedom. I am entering the loneliest part of the path. Too far from the corporate world to go back but not yet established enough for the world to meet me where I am. This next year will test whether I can sustain what I have started without the novelty of travel or the adrenaline of first deals. I am grateful and I am ready. Onwards and upwards.